What NOT to call your Service Member?
Updated: Oct 10, 2023
Are you a ‘newbie’ to the military? Do you often feel overwhelmed by all the new military jargon and terminology? Don’t feel bad! The June 2020 edition of the Department of Defense Dictionary of Military and Associated Terms has over 360 pages – and that doesn’t include the 1000s of informal acronyms and phrases service members use daily (see shortlist below).
Learning military lingo can be like learning a new language, but you can quickly hold your own in a conversation with your service member with practice. A great place to start is by understanding the differences in military titles. Each of the five (six if we include the Space Force) has its unique titles, such as Sailor, Marine, and Soldier.
Here is a list of titles that will keep out of hot water!
Soldiers: Members of the Army
Sailors: Members of the Navy
Airmen: Members of the Air Force
Guardsmen: Members of the Space Force
Coast Guardsmen (or Coasties): Members of the Coast Guard
Marines: Members of the Marine Corps
Reservists: Members of the Reserve
Want to really impress your recruit after graduation? Here is an official list of acronyms, phrases, and a bit of slang.
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Official acronyms
AWOL– Absent With Out Leave: not at one's place of duty and not authorized to be absent
CDR – Commander
CO – Commanding Officer
CONUS – Continental United States
COB – Close Of Business: the end of the day or duty shift
CoS – Chief of Staff
DD or DoD – Department of Defense
IAW – In accordance with
ICO – In case of, in care of
IED – Improvised Explosive Device
IRT – In reference to
GWOT – Global War On Terror
NCO – Non-Commissioned Officer: an enlisted person with command responsibility over soldiers of lesser rank
NCOIC – Non-Commissioned Officer In Charge
OEF – Operation Enduring Freedom: official name used for the War in Afghanistan
OIF – Operation Iraqi Freedom: official name used for the War in Iraq
OND – Operation New Dawn: new name for the War in Iraq starting in September 2010 to reflect reduced role of US troops
MOS – Military Occupational Specialty: job or career specialty (e.g., infantryman, intelligence analyst, operating room specialist, military police, etc.)
OCONUS – Outside the Continental United States
POC – Point Of Contact: the person to liaise with on a given matter
ROTC – Reserve Officer Training Corps (often pronounced "ROT-SEE")
R/S – Respectfully Submitted: used as an end greeting in written communication or email
SOP – Standard Operating Procedure: the routine manner of handling a set situation
TDY – Temporary Duty Yonder
V/R – Very Respectfully: used as an end greeting in written communication or email
Phrases
Battle assembly – new term used for Army Reserve weekend drills, unit training assemblies, or multiple unit training assemblies
Boots on the ground – to physically be in a location (some may use this to say that they want "boots on the ground" for a particular project, which means they want everyone physically in the office, rather than having people call in.)
Drill – preparation of military personnel for performance of their duties through the practice and rehearsal of prescribed movements; members of the National Guard and Reserve are required to attend one weekend drill a month (sometimes starting Friday night until Monday morning)
Extended drill – extended time for drill in preparation for a deployment
Liberty – authorized free time ashore or off station, not counted as leave, also known as a "pass"
Ma'am – proper method of addressing female officers in particular and women in general
Sir – proper method of addressing male officers in particular and men in general
Tour of duty – time period during which a particular job or assignment is done (e.g., my tour of duty is 8am-5pm)
Slang
Above my/your pay grade – expression denying responsibility or authority (indicating that the issue should be brought to higher-ranking officials)
Civvies – civilian clothing
Down Range – physically in a combat zone
In-Country – physically in a war zone
Quarters – (a) military family housing, or (b) doctor's direction to stay home from work (e.g., I'm confined to quarters.)
Say again (your last) – request to repeat a statement, question, or order, especially over a radio
Stay in your lane – stay within your boundaries; do your job as commanded and trust that you will know what you need to know when you need to know it
Wilco – Will comply
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